THE GIRL WITH GREEN EYES...!!

Ok, it is all about an evening, an evening that compelled me to
keep on thinking about her, thinking about her green eyes, her
innocent accent of speaking and about her injured foot. Ok let me
reduce your complexities regarding the situation I am talking about.
At a sunday evening, standing in front of Javed Habib's saloon
at Sonipat(Harayana)(India). Having discussions  with my
cousin brother regarding my future plans in life, I saw her, and it
felt like I want to see her again and again. Well I dont know why
is this so? But still it felt like......well well keeping my emotions
in control, let me tell you further. She was driving her black Activa
and just passed by us, and I just wished in my mind to see her again
knowing that it is not so possible to happen. So considering the
possibilities, me and my brother again went into our crucial discussions.
Although my wishes never come true, but dont know, what exactly
happened that day, guess what did I see,
Yes I saw her again Coming back towards us, she might be returning
to her home, My heart just melted, and my eyes got stuck to her.
yes and finally she looked at me and then we stared at each other
but, nice moments do not last for long, and never forever.
So she again focused on her driving and me on her :).

Now what, I was just looking at her beautiful green eyes and a big
sound startled me, And I saw her felling down, and my heart
climbing up in my throat. It was a guy with some lady sitting at
his back and their pulsar 180. He just rushed his bike into the
activa and just disappeared, probably he might got suggestions
from someone, how to save his life from there.
I just threw my expensive eye gear, and went towards the injured
activa and injured girl with the green eyes. As no one there came for
help, I realized, that I was standing in India. I feel sorry to say
this but I certainly have to. My brother lifted up the scooty, and
I went to the girl, She was in pain, but not more than me.. are you
fine, I asked, probably a stupid question that time. She spoke
in her majestic voice 'YES' and I just adored everything about her
I hold her hand, and helped her reached her drive, and then I saw
her injured foot, and my feelings turned into aghast. I spoke
'your foot, it is injured..!!' She replied in her firm voice, "Yes, it is
ok, it is just paining, but i will manage it, Thank you very much".
she spoke without a pause. but then it is the time to leave her hand
now, so I did it and helped her get back on her activa.

At last, she looked into my eyes, and I just saw her green eyes,
and our interchange of looks broke when she blink twice, and
said "Bye", "thank you again" were her last words to me, she started her
activa and went off, that time of my life was like, something
is being snatched from me, a very precious thing indeed. But that
is what all about, I din't asked her name, just
watched her going. she just went away and I wish I could meet her again
but again to say that it is not so possible...!!
Well the Irony is that these were the words that I said the last
and saw her, superstitions do exist.
I dont know why the event took place, but it certainly tought
me that how deep a feeling can be, and how sweet a presence
is....!! there are situations that are distinct, I mean they are more
than just attractions, these are feelings more than love, that cannot
be described..!! It is not just attraction, it is Obsession.
It is not for everyone, but is definitely for someone...!!


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VJ....Cheerz..!!

Confession : PLANNING AND SECURING FUTURE.

CONFESSIONS: PLANNING AND SECURING FUTURE..!!


Yes, if we are planning about securing our future, then no doubt we are confessing that we are committing mistake. What do we plan? another question, how can we secure our future? Ok let us try and negotiate regarding this, I asked few people that what are your future plans, one of them admitted that to get a government job and survive on pension afterwords..! Same question was asked to a wealthy man, What are your future plans? He replied, that I would print money till 40 and then retirement...! How simple was that? A multimillionaire was asked the same question then.. He proudly replied that I would replicate my wealth in the coming future..!! LOLZ..!
Now somebody please explain the people with such mentality, Do they have an confirmation that they could live till 40, or till the time they get retired, are they sure? They will be called almighty then...! and no doubt that millionaire will certainly take his wealth along with him..!
The concept is very simple, people in the run for becoming rich, wealthy and planing for their future that they think could be secured, forgets that they are just the puppets of the game. They did'nt even know that whether they will be alive the next day, neither do me or anyone of us  knows that we will be there till 40. By not considering it a negativity, we must realize that planning future is not the need, the need is to live life the fullest each day.

AN Engineering student was quite startled watching all his classmates getting quite serious regarding their jobs in future, Since all the engineers want to gain a prominent place in our society, well no doubt in this process, they forgets that they have a life to live. My motive and my message does not say that, we must not consider our future as important, but we must not take it so considerable that we may even loose the joy of livings. Yes we have a career to make, but more importantly we have a life to live.

Yes, sometimes it is a family pressure, to be an engineer or a doctor or a manager, which often kills the aspirations, and sometimes its just a stubbornness to become rich. But everyone ignores the style of living. Bounds now have dominated the working people, even to plan a holiday, or maybe they consider the foremost priority to plan their future. People agrees to live with a monotonous routine, but they are satisfied sacrificing their lifestyle. The studies or the jobs or any business all these things, never ever creates any sort of pressure on livings, but the truth is we ourselves pressurize us to be intensely involved in shaping our future. If people are greedy today, its accepted because they do not have any other choice else being greedy.

According to the mentalities, a secured future could provide all comforts, but have you ever thought that if you will not be there to take pleasure of the comforts that you have preserved for yourself then whatever you did throughout your life is all waste of time isnt it? Well discussing all this, is not the very utilization of time, but still an effort to change the way of thinking.

LIVE THE LIFE KINGG SIZE YOU NEVER KNOW THAT WHETHER YOU WILL BE THERE TO SEE A SECURED FUTURE, THATS NATURALLY A UNIVERSAL TRUTH THAT WE ARE UNAWARE OF DEATH,
as the death says
THE TIME MAY COME AND THE TIME MAY GO BUT I WILL COME FOREVER, and also not considering it as a negativity, we must start living each day of life, instead of worrying for our future, is we will live our fullest today we will automatically be able to create a good and secure future....!!


KEEP READING.......V.J CHEERS..!

My B.A.R.E.I.L.L.Y

Hey guys,
After getting myself involve in writing my  two blogs on the issues that are meant for social agenda, now its time for me to get you something new, something different.
This time I would like to throw some light on a small town with big hearts, BAREILLY(of course my HOMETOWN). Well this is something special for me, to write about my hometown, its simply an excitement.
To start with, let me tell you that Bareilly is a small town situated in north west uttar pradesh. Although its not that interesting for readers to read about a small town but this town is none less than a metropolitan.
If we consider the history of bareilly, its just vast I must say, according to the EPICS (MAHABHARATA), Bareilly  is the birthplace of DRAUPADI,  When yudhishthira became the king of Hastinapur, Draupadi became his queen.Not going deep into the history, Bareilly is standing on Ramganga river, and after the rohilla war it had been announced as the capital of ROHILLKHAND region. The British India baazar is the footprint that reveals the glorious rule of Britishers at the town. Besides all this bareilly is also called as BANS bareilly, factually its because it had been named after two prince BANSALDEV and BARALDEV, but practically its because its the centre for production of cane furniture.The city was discovered by MUKRAND RAI in 1657 later on handed over to Nawab Vazir of Awadh and then to the East India company and finally becoming an integral part of INDIA. Well coming out of the past, The status of the town was upgraded when its name was included in the COUNTER MAGNETS of the NCR or National City Region including some other towns namely kota, gwalior, hisar and.patiala.
Bareilly is also known as the NATH NAGRI, as this place is famous for the NATH temples that includes, ALAKHA NATH, TRIVATI NATH, MADHI NATH, DHOPESHWAR NATH, BANKHANDI NATH and PASHUPATI NATH. It is also famous for ALAH HAZRAT, Imam Ahmed Raza Khan Fazil-e-Barelvi's Dargah all over the world.

Now when we knew about some landmarks, let us know about the cultural activities that prevails here, there are four eminent personalities who can certainly prevail bareilly as thier hometown, the names includes,
PRIYANKA CHOPRA( former miss world and famous bollywood actress.)
WASIM BARELVI( world renowned urdu poet)
IMRAN KHAN( won a gold medal for shooting in New Delhi at 19th commonwealth games.)
well if we talk about amusement parks and the places to hang out, we dont need to worry because there are many of them, the list starts with FUNCITY and the BOOND water park, and we talk about the Malls and Multicomplexes, the me aware you guys, besides the AMRAPALI GROUPS, and the PHEONIX UNITED  MALL, there are many that are under construction like, Western mall( along with the wave cinemas), Aditya magnets( along with three screen PVRs), Jewels of India mall( suncity projects), Reliance starcity( JJ malls).
The present commercial complexes of the city includes Butler plaza, JJ mall, Vishal mega mart, CL mall( with showrooms like Adidas, Benetton, Jawed habib, weekender, reebok,  US polo assn, Louise philippe, pantaloons, Blackberry's, LEVI's, MUFTI, Peter England Mc Donalds, and many more.
Well my town had never let me unsatisfied regarding sports. Major sports stadiums includes,  Dori lal agarwal sports complex, Major Dhyanchand sports stadium(cantoment), Cricket academy of Bareilly(The CAB) and the Bareilly club's cricket association.
Well thats all not folks, lets talk about the EDUCATION department,  MJP Rohilkhand university, Indian Veterinary research institute, Central Avian research institute, IET( Institute of engineering and technology), SRMS institute of Engineering and Medical sciences, Invertis University, are amongst the best Institutions in Uttar pradesh.
That is why my bareilly makes me proud of it, and to be a civilian of this town makes me proud.
Hope the people of BAREILLY get to know their town much better after reading this.




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VJ...!!

THE TABOO.

A creation made by GOD, "HUMAN BEINGS", These are the "Living beings" who are loaded with emotions, feelings and sentiments, for which they are called humans. Since their birth, till their death, they pass through several stages and experiences several phases of life. In this long chase of life, they explores themselves, some becomes achievers, some becomes admirer while some, so called "losers". They learns to evolve from a child to a Man, they learn to sacrifice and to protest. Humans, also known as the social animals. They always fought for their greed and needs, unaware that to place themselves, to find themselves, what have they done. Hence, they are the part of a TABOO. Crawling for the salvation from their sins, but the bane of taboo, is the response from GOD.
TABOO: If there is a taboo on a subject or activity, its a social custom to avoid doing that activity or talking about that subject, because people finds them embarrassing, or offensive.
Yes this the actual meaning of TABOO. We discussed about the "HUMAN BEINGS", about their sins, their salvation from their sins. Let us know how this vile and lethal taboo, had exploited human values and thus became a bane for humanity.
MAURITANIA...!
This place is situated in west Africa, with an estimated population of 30 lacks, and area of about 1,030,700 sq. kilometers, people of Mauritania follows Islam and hence its an Islamic republic, Arabic is the mother language. Now let us know the fact of taboo here,
In this nation, women are considered beautiful only if they gains a weight over 90 kilograms. Yes this the fact and due to this each and every female species want to gain more and more weight to defeat taboo. Hence proper elaboration proclaims that, if the girl or the women are slim and under weighed are likely to be unattractive here. A male species would never marry a girl unless she is fat enough. Well that is the present situation at Mauritania. If you think that is all, you might be in a misconception, no doubt that girl child abduction is illegal in this nation, but other creepy traditions do exist here. GIRL FEEDING, yes girl feeding, in this activity, the mothers feed their girl child more than their diets and capacities, just to make them fat, because according to the customs that prevails her " a fat lady is not a bad lady", unaware of the pains and emotions of that small child, who is bearing all sorts of foolish traditions, again, i would call such traditions as " BASELESS TRADITIONS", in Mauritania this custom is known as "GAWAAZ".
Similarly, let us consider a developed country, after all TABOO can be anywhere around the globe.
UNITED STATES OF AMERICA(USA).
We are all aware of the fact ,what and where America stands today. Well, a just opposite situation prevails here in America, here the situation of TABOO is;
women who are fat are considered unattractive here, and slim women gains, Glamor, Fame and Success, while this situation prevails in most of the countries of the world, they want to regain their slim and fit body to defeat taboo.
Hence we saw the stories of two different nations, where people of both the nations are making efforts to defeat taboo. But one must be aware that  the effect of Taboo also response back. Lets go back to Mauritania.
The "GAWAAZ"( girl feeding) has now became o social issue in Mauritania, yes, its admitted that excessive girl feeding is no less than " child abuse" and hence the government of the country declared it as Illegal. Now what?? the traditions have to be followed, always...!! if a girl is not fat or over weighed, she would not get married. simultaneously, all the females were hacked by obesity and if the law against "GAWAAZ" is passed then the coming population would not be obese.
Hence Mauritanians have to face challenges in their coming future, will the male species marry a slim and fit girl in this nation?? Yes this is the question that "TABOO" has left the people of Mauritania with, and no doubt that it is the matter of great concern for them.
O n the other hand the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA(USA), was highlighted in the media of all the countries around the globe. According to the local census American girls comprises of the "tiny majorities" who were pregnant at just the age of 16 years. This happened only because of the exposure of their slim body," that is what the women of America did to defeat TABOO," isn't it??. Well now, it was taboo's turn. The girls who were not even completely matured were getting pregnant and that too with an alarming rate. Experimentation with "puberty" has now made them suffer, and eventually that is how taboo responded in the developed America.
Therefore, both the countries, mentioned above tried to "defeat" taboo, but at the end it was "taboo" that dominated them. Hence we cannot fight Nature,"HUMANS" just try to simulate their intellectuals and get punished for breaking the laws of GOD and NATURE altogether.

IS SPIRITUALITY, OUR WEAKNESS??

INDIA, the "INCREDIBLE INDIA" mainframes an image that reveals the glory and purity of the culture that exist here. No doubt, that spirituality is the foremost priority of every Indian, but superstitions also do exist, and the old traditions which are considered to be the ''TRIBUTE" for Indian culture strongly emphasize on the way of living of the Indian population. The chronology that represent us since the Indian history till the time when revolution occurred proclaims the heritage and hierarchy of the people's intellects and thinking. But all apart, is this is the appropriate way of being spiritual or involving ourselves in spiritual activities.?? Did spirituality had dominated us somehow?? Are we caught in the cobwebs of over spirituality or excessive traditional methods?? Yes, these are the questions that comes into my mind? The most important one is,  Is spirituality somehow, becoming our weakness?

Well let us try and negotiate regarding these questions, if we talk about the facts and figures, we know better that anybody else do, that what are the levels of superstitious beliefs, submerged in the the seniors since the times of our predecessors. Hence these superstitions had them weak at some point or the other, and this specimen reflects in the major population of our country. These superstitions had devastated the level of confidence among themselves.

Most of the population of our country, including the literate and illiterates are suppressed by their spiritual views and what soever this might be the reason for the "curve" in the backbone of  economical and financial status of India. No doubt, our "culture" has a strong importance on any Indian, but to let it effect our livings, is not an appropriate option.

Scientifically,

Ideology of spirituality can never harm any religion or casts or the economy of any country, but the way of being spiritual can surely do so. We can compare science with humanities but spirituality is not a commodity that could be compared in fact it owns a special place in our country. Generally spirituality also comes under "philosophy" but it is not defined under philosophy because it beholds an prior value among the Indians, we cannot consider spirituality as a study, whereas we use to study philosophy that includes "anthropology" "humanities" and "ethics". hence spirituality comes naturally but is profitable only when correct methodology is considered. 

As far as "COMMERCIALIZATION"  on spirituality is concerned, it had became a proliferating business in the 21st century. People of our country might have some "fanatic" views, that holds a huge importance for them, but they are unaware that they are being  cheated. To commercialize on such fanatic and superstitious views the "saints" and the "tantrics" are on the "cloud nine".

For an instance, you wont find enough crowd in an educational speech,debates or knowledge based seminars, but yes, yes can certainly find "more than enough" in a "satsang or katha". So eventually this elaborates the levels of spiritualism that exist in our country. If we count on the millionairess of the coming future, we will surely be counting all the "babas" and the "swamis" in the list.

Bitter, but the truth is the fact that we are making ourselves weak instead of gaining some positive energy out of our environment, A true fact recorded that " we do not want to give our 100 percent effort in anything instead we give our 50 percent and wait for the rest 50 percent to get accomplished though our luck, and if not by our luck, than we run towards the powers that we consider that exists". I recon to call such traditions as "BASELESS TRADITIONS" that unfortunately, inherited in us from our ancestors or predecessors. 

So, this blog was not against spirituality what soever, its just an initiative to spread awareness regarding the way we involve ourselves in spirituality.

So the answer to questions that had been put up,must be acknowledged by our own intellectuals, all i want to say is " ITS JUST THE WAY WE THINK,COULD BRING CHANGES.